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		<title>19 Year Old Commits Suicide Live on Internet</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Dec 2008 19:15:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[In Broward County, Florida on Wednesday, November 26, 2008 a 19-year-old male took his own life. While this tragic event unfortunately occurs time and again, the particular circumstances surrounding this suicide are worsened by the man broadcasting his death on the internet and the internet bullying that ensued.
The man, identified as Abraham K. Biggs, announced [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: left;"><a href="http://www.cyberbullyalert.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/suicide_chatroom.jpg"></a><img class="alignleft" style="margin-left: 10px; margin-right: 10px;" src="http://www.timesonline.co.uk/multimedia/archive/00437/FR_suicide_chatroom_437190a.jpg" alt="" width="385" height="185" />In Broward County, Florida on Wednesday, November 26, 2008 a 19-year-old male took his own life. While this tragic event unfortunately occurs time and again, the particular circumstances surrounding this suicide are worsened by the man broadcasting his death on the internet and the internet bullying that ensued.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">The man, identified as Abraham K. Biggs, announced his intention to kill himself in an online forum. One report indicated, he went on a www.bodybuilding.com forum, where he was reportedly a member under the pseudonym “CandyJunkie,” and he posted the amount of drugs he was going to take in order to overdose with a link to a live video. Biggs also posted a suicide note online.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Posting a suicide note and detailing how he was going to kill himself was not the end of this calamity. In addition to the online forum postings, Biggs had streamed a live video of himself during and after his suicide. The broadcast showed his consumption of several pills. Then, as hundreds of web surfers watched the live feed, Biggs took his last breath and lay lifeless on his bed. Several hours passed before website viewers and those that participated in the online bullying became alarmed. The live video had been streaming for hours while Biggs’ motionless, lifeless body lay on his bed. Finally, someone called the police. According to one report the website’s moderator informed the authorities of the video. Other reports say viewers of the broadcast eventually called police. With the live video still streaming, police broke down the door, found the lifeless body, and turned off the webcam. It had been 12 hours since Biggs began blogging about his intended suicide. According to one report, at the time the police entered Biggs’ bedroom about 1,500 people were viewing the video.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">The website Biggs chose for his final moments was Justin.tv. Michael Seibel, CEO of Justin.tv said “We regret that this has occurred and respect the privacy of the broadcaster and his family during this time.” Seibel continued, “We have policies in place to discourage the distribution of distressing content and our community monitors the site accordingly. This content was flagged by our community, reviewed and removed according to our terms of service.” Since the incident, the disturbing video feed has been taken down; however, clips of the unfortunate event still remain. Internet surfers have posted clips of the video and copies of Biggs’ suicide note all over the internet.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">A very disturbing circumstance of the young man’s death is that in response to Biggs’ forum posts and the broadcast of his live video, viewers and members of the online forum taunted Biggs, bullying him over the internet and encouraging him to commit suicide. “You want to kill yourself?” “Do it, do the world a favor and stop wasting our time with your mindless self-pity.” Several individuals continued the internet harassment of Biggs all throughout his video as well as bullying him on the internet after his death, believing it was all a practical joke. After learning of the live broadcast of his son’s suicide, Biggs’ father, Abraham Biggs, Sr., said he was upset that Justin.tv streamed the video. Biggs Sr. stated, “There seems to be a lack of control as to what people put out on the Internet . . . There’s a lot of garbage out there that should not be, and unfortunately this was allowed to happen.” Because the troubled young man had supposedly threatened to commit suicide many times before, the webcast’s viewers and internet bullies believed Biggs was not serious about his intentions. They taunted him, insulted him, and continuously bullied him. The <a href="http://www.cyberbullyalert.com/download.php" target="_self">online bullying</a> and <a href="http://www.cyberbullyalert.com/" target="_self">internet harassment</a> lasted for hours. Was it this internet bullying that finally made him commit the fatal act?</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Unfortunately, advancements in technology have resulted in an epidemic of worldwide <a href="http://www.cyberbullyalert.com/incentive.php" target="_self">bullying on the internet</a>. For example, in 2007, a British man hanged himself live on a webcam with hundreds viewing the broadcast in a chatroom. Supposedly, the depressed man ventured into a chatroom pondering suicide and online bullying ensued. The internet harassment consisted of chatroom members reportedly telling the man, among other things, to “F**king do it. Get on with it.” Since 2001, according to a charity that works to prevent suicide, there have been at least 17 deaths in Britain involving websites and online bullying. Internet harassment is an ongoing, growing problem. For the safety of troubled persons and for <a href="http://www.cyberbullyalert.com/resources.php" target="_self">online child safety</a>, something should be done to monitor disturbing <a href="http://www.cyberbullyalert.com/incentive.php" target="_self">internet bullying</a> sites.</p>
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		<title>How Schools can help Eliminate Cyber Bullying</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Dec 2008 17:27:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The times are definitely changing, not only politically, but  also socially and technologically. Bullying was once “just part of being a kid”  some time ago, and continues to be part of the lives of today’s children.  Bullying has gone to the World Wide Web and created the term cyber bullying,  where [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The times are definitely changing, not only politically, but  also socially and technologically. Bullying was once “just part of being a kid”  some time ago, and continues to be part of the lives of today’s children.  Bullying has gone to the World Wide Web and created the term cyber bullying,  where kids are using text messages, social media communities and other  multi-media to hurt the feelings of their fellow classmates.</p>
<p>Principals, teachers and other school officials are well  aware of the ongoing of cyber bullying and traditional bullying on the  playground, although some of these adults take bullying with a grain of salt  and don’t do too much to prevent the events. A study conducted by the National  Associate of School Psychologists (NASP) found that nearly 25 percent of the  polled teachers believe that it is not necessary to intervene in bullying and  other forms of disruptive behavior.</p>
<p>Here are some ways that schools can help to eliminate cyber  bullying:</p>
<ul>
<li>See cyber bullying as a problem: Students know  that cyber bullying can be painful mentally, but oftentimes don’t realize that  it is wrong and preventable, and therefore don’t tell school authorities about specific  cases. Raise awareness about the rise in cyber bullying, effects of cyber  bullying, and what kids should do if they see it happening.</li>
<li>Survey the extent of the problem: Make the time  to conduct school wide surveys to students and staff about the knowledge and  attitudes about cyber bullying. Find out if there are specific places or times  when cyber bullying occurs and use this information as a tool to prevent other  issues.</li>
<li>Create a specialized system to follow: Have your  school create a value system based on respect for others, personal  responsibility and caring to make it clear what is expected from each student  and what consequences they can face if they don’t follow the system. Make sure  that each teacher and school official is aware of the system and it is also  sent to parents of the children so they are aware of the new program. Provide  an avenue for them to voice any comments or concerns.</li>
<li>Bring awareness via the classroom: Set time  aside for specialized discussion, lesson plans and critical thinking skills in  the classroom to focus on early intervention and risks of cyber bullying.</li>
<li>Build a team for cyber bullying prevention: If  your budget allows, create a team of student activists that will spread  awareness of the rise of cyber bullying and prevention. Students can come together  to talk about prior experiences, or have fundraising activities to raise  awareness. Or, have former victims speak at your school to bring a more  personable relation to the idea of cyber bullying.</li>
<li>Provide interventions and mediation: If cyber  bullying cases are apparent on your campus, find a way to provide interventions  between the cyber bullies and the victim with a counselor or mediator. Give  each child a chance to say what they feel and discuss why cyber bullying is  unhealthy.</li>
<li>Have medical professionals on campus: Principals  should work to hire qualified school psychologists or other trained mental  health professionals to assist any students and help out with creating a value  system regarding cyber bullying.</li>
<li>Work with other schools in the district: Contact  neighboring schools about raising awareness on the rise of cyber bullying.  Also, reinstate the ideas of the negative effects of cyber bullying by offering  discussion and training tools as students move through grade levels and  different schools.</li>
<li>Enforce consequences: Consequences for bullying  and cyber bullying should be known and understood by students. By enforcing  these consequences, students will understand the reality of cyber bullying and  force them to stop their behaviors.</li>
<li>Define the difference between reporting useful  information and ratting out a friend: Some students will be weary of reporting  bad behavior because they may feel like they are “tattling” on a friend. Ensure  confidentiality between the student and the school authority and let students  know they can trust adults.</li>
</ul>
<p>Train all school officials:  Not only teachers, but also sport coaches, after school supervisors and even  bus drivers should be aware of bullying or listen out for cyber bullying  events. They should know how to respond to these triggers and how to reinforce  positive problem solving.</p>
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		<title>Cyber Bullying on the Rise</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Nov 2008 17:10:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[“Cyber bullying” is a  new term that seems to be a household phrase that is infiltrating many homes  with teenagers and young children. While it is important to discuss  preventative ways to deter these actions, it’s also important to understand why  there has been such an extensive rise of cyber bullying.
Traditional [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>“Cyber bullying” is a  new term that seems to be a household phrase that is infiltrating many homes  with teenagers and young children. While it is important to discuss  preventative ways to deter these actions, it’s also important to understand why  there has been such an extensive rise of cyber bullying.</p>
<p>Traditional bullying occurs in the classroom or on school  grounds, but technologically savvy kids are taking their unsettling words to  the Internet through email, MySpace, Facebook, other websites and text and  instant messages. Cyber bullies are posting disturbing messages, videos and  images of their contacts onto the web where millions of other people can see. <a href="http://www.cyberbullyalert.com/blog/" target="_self"> Cyber bullies</a> can also remain anonymous on websites and through email messages  so the increase of bullies on the web is also rising.</p>
<p>The U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention noticed  a rise in <a href="http://www.cyberbullyalert.com" target="_self">cyber bullying</a>. In 2000, only nine percent of kids ages 10 to 17  experienced this type of bullying. The percentage has now reached 50 percent for 2008. Another study shows that 64 percent of the teens that said they were the  victim of cyber bullying were never bullied at school. There are a few reasons  why this rate has increased so much. This age bracket is becoming more technologically  savvy as a result of entertainment and their other interests going online.  Schools are also teaching students how to use the Internet to acquire help with  projects and homework. Social media groups also let these kids create a profile  about themselves and easy ways to communicate with others.</p>
<p>i-SAFE Inc., a worldwide leader in Internet safety  education, conducted a study to prove the rise of cyber bullying. Their  conclusions showed that: 53 percent of the 1500 student surveyed have admitted  to saying something mean or hurtful to a person through the Internet; 42  percent of those surveyed have experienced bullying online; and 58 percent of  those surveyed have had someone say something hurtful to them online. Even more  alarming, 58 percent never told their parents about their experienced with  being bullied online.</p>
<p>While it may seem like a simple solution to prevent cyber  bullying is to take away all computer privileges, many of today’s kids use  these websites and Internet tools as another way of socializing. MySpace cyber  bullying is a popular mode because bullies can post hateful information on  another person’s profile page or on their own page, or a bully can create a  separate profile just about bullying this particular person. Facebook cyber bullying  is similar to <a href="http://www.cyberbullyalert.com/blog/2008/08/myspace-cyberbullying-incident-produces-tragic-results/" target="_self">MySpace cyber bullying</a> because they can create fake identities or  create a page with the sole purpose of bullying another person. Twitter is  another social media network that is adding to the rise of cyber bullying. A  user can “follow” another person to post status updates or send mean messages.  Users can also post links to websites about cyber bulling as “<em>helpful” </em>how-to guides.</p>
<p>In extreme cases, kids are learning how to create their own  websites, free of charge, to target a while site about bullying individuals.  The person gains acceptance with their group of friends because they are  humiliating the other person for everyone to see. Then, the bully will use  MySpace, Facebook or Twitter to spread the word about additions to their  hateful website.</p>
<p>Access to the Internet is also increasing. Local small  businesses are offering free wireless Internet access for their customers as a  marketing tool to increase their sales. Cell phones offer quick and simple  access to the Internet. The Internet is offered in school libraries and  classrooms for school work and educational tools. If your child is not allowed  on the web while they are at home, of course they are going to find alternative  ways to stay connected.</p>
<p>Some social media websites require the child’s email address  and password to gain access into their account. This limits the ability for a  parent to monitor their navigation through certain sites and some parents just  aren’t involved enough to be concerned with what is going on over the internet.  Without an open level of communication between child and parent, there may be  another life your child is leading without you even knowing.</p>
<p>The rise of <a href="http://www.cyberbullyalert.com" target="_self">cyber bullying</a> is definitely increasing with the  current times so it is important to discuss this with your children to prevent  any serious injury or conflicts.</p>
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		<title>Effects of Cyber Bullying</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Nov 2008 16:33:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Children learn from a young age how effective violence and  intimidation can be from various media and entertainment outlets. Quirky  cartoons portray a loveable character and his or her daily battles with a  particular bully. Popular sitcoms and movies depict high school students who  sing and dance to popular tunes, but [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Children learn from a young age how effective violence and  intimidation can be from various media and entertainment outlets. Quirky  cartoons portray a loveable character and his or her daily battles with a  particular bully. Popular sitcoms and movies depict high school students who  sing and dance to popular tunes, but also have to face intimidating bullies in  and out of class. Although these characters overcome their plights, there is  still a clear message that bullying is an effective way to upset another person  and bring down their self-esteem.</p>
<p>Children and teenagers are becoming more technologically  savvy and are looking to the Internet and their cell phones for entertainment, and to social networks to meet new people who share the same  interests as them. It was only a matter of time before  bullying made its way to the Internet, especially through modes like MySpace  and Facebook. Cyber bullies have been making news lately with the recent deaths  of children across the nation who have perished because of online bullying  campaigns. Megan Meier is one of the more noted of these cases.</p>
<p>Some examples of <a href="http://www.cyberbullyalert.com" target="_self">cyber bullying</a> include sending threatening  emails, text messages or comments to another person; tricking someone into  revealing private or embarrassing information and sending it to others;  breaking into someone’s email or social media account and sending false  messages to others while posing as this person; and creating web pages to make  fun of another person.</p>
<p>Even though the bullying doesn’t take place on a one-on-one  basis, <a href="http://www.cyberbullyalert.com/blog/2008/08/myspace-cyberbullying-incident-produces-tragic-results/" target="_self">MySpace cyber bullying</a> and other forms of cyber bullying still show the same  effects. Rather than just being bullied while in the classroom or play ground,  children can be the target of cyber bullying 24 hours a day, seven days a week.  Some of the more general effects of cyber bullying include poor performance at  school, depression and low self-esteem. Because cyber bullying can take place  outside of the classroom and at a more frequent rate, the child may experience  more extreme cases of these effects. Consider these factors if you suspect that  your child is being bullied online:</p>
<ul>
<li>You child may feel like there is no escape from  cyber bullying. It seems easy enough to close these social media accounts and  simply turn off of the computer. However, for some kids avoiding these websites  or instant messages may seclude them from one of the most important places they  socialize.</li>
<li>Your child may be at home when they experience  cyber bullying, which can lead to a sense of endangerment within the confines  of their own room or house.</li>
<li>Cyber bullies are more likely to say harsher  words online or by text message because they don’t have to say it to the other  person’s face or see their reaction.</li>
<li>Your child may feel like they can’t be secure  within their own surrounding because some cyber bullies never reveal their  identity. The anonymity of cyber bullying can add to their feeling of being  unsafe.</li>
</ul>
<p>A recent survey conducted by i-SAFE America concluded that  58 percent of children who have experienced cyber bullying never told an adult  or their parent. There are a few preventative measures that you and your child  can take to avert any negative experiences while your child uses the Internet:</p>
<ul>
<li>Never give out private information about the  child, passwords, school, family or friends. This information is an easy target  for an anonymous <a href="http://www.cyberbullyalert.com" target="_self">cyber bully</a>.</li>
<li>Never exchange pictures with people you meet on  the Internet.</li>
<li>Delete any messages from people you don’t know.</li>
<li>Because millions of people have access to what  is written online, be careful what you say and what type of information you  send out.</li>
<li>Consider setting your child’s social media  account to private so people that they don’t know can’t see their pictures or  any of the information posted to the site.</li>
</ul>
<p>Bullying has been around  for many generations and some people would say that it is just a part of  growing up. If your child experiences physical threats, report it to the owners  of the websites or local officials and keep a log of the bullying. As the  saying goes, “What doesn’t kill you only makes you stronger.” However in  today’s technologically advanced age, the death of a child is never worth it.</p>
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		<title>Popular Websites used for Cyber Bullying</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Oct 2008 22:16:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Around the country, more and more of our young people are  falling victim to cyber bullying – the use of electronic devices such as an  Internet-connected computers to bully, harass, intimidate or humiliate another  individual.   But where is all of this  online cyber bullying taking place?  The  [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: left;">Around the country, more and more of our young people are  falling victim to cyber bullying – the use of electronic devices such as an  Internet-connected computers to bully, harass, intimidate or humiliate another  individual.   But where is all of this  online cyber bullying taking place?  The  following list provides insight into the sites most commonly being used for  cyber bullying as well as why and how this problem is occurring.</p>
<h3 style="text-align: left;">MySpace Cyber Bullying</h3>
<p style="text-align: left;"><a href="http://www.cyberbullyalert.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/myspace-logo.jpg"><img class="alignnone" style="float:left; padding:0px 6px 0px 0 px" title="myspace logo" src="http://www.ktts.com/Portals/24/myspace%20logo.gif" alt="" width="107" height="92" /></a></p>
<p style="text-align: left;">MySpace is the number one social networking site for high  school age students and younger.  How  popular is MySpace?   Rupert Murdoch  bought the company $580 millions dollars just a few short years ago and now the  company’s value is several times that already huge figure.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Most kids use MySpace to set up profiles and share  information about themselves, their favorite music, Hollywood stars and other  interests with kids in their school or neighborhood.  For most, MySpace represents a fun form of  self-expression that utilizes the latest online technology.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">But a small percentage of kids use MySpace for  cyber bullying.  This can be accomplished  in several different ways, including:</p>
<ul style="text-align: left;">
<li>Posting hateful information on another person’s  MySpace page.</li>
<li>Posting hateful information about another person  on your own MySpace page</li>
<li>Creating a new MySpace profile for the sole  purpose of bullying another individual.</li>
</ul>
<p style="text-align: left;">However it is executed, cyber bullying on MySpace remains a  significant problem.  While many chalk it  up to “kids being kids”, more and more are starting to realize that a nasty  post on someone’s MySpace page is as bad or worse that a taunt yelled across  the schoolyard.</p>
<h3 style="text-align: left;">Facebook Cyber Bullying</h3>
<p style="text-align: left;"><img class="alignleft" style="float:left; padding:0px 6px 0px 0 px" title="Facebook Logo" src="http://www.callboxlive.com/resources/wp-content/uploads/2008/07/facebook-logo.jpg" alt="" width="152" height="57" /></p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Facebook is similar to MySpace except that it is geared  towards a slightly older audience (the music and customization functionality is  a lot less robust than found on MySpace) but is still being used by  cyber bullies to harass their classmates and ex-friends.  The rules of engagement are similar to those  found in MySpace: people will either use their own profile to harass others, or  create fake identities and build profiles to harass other people or dupe them  into thinking another person is interested in them (romantically or as a  friend).</p>
<h3 style="text-align: left;">Twitter Cyber Bullying</h3>
<p style="text-align: left;"><img class="alignleft" src="http://blog.pricegrabber.co.uk/gottahave/files/2008/08/twitter-logo.png" alt="" width="152" height="56" />One of the fastest growing social media enterprises, Twitter  allows people to “follow” one another by posting regular updates about their  activities.  Twitter is seeing a growing  number of cyber bullying incidents as more and more kids figure out how to post  hateful, harassing information about their friends and deliver it “via Tweet” to  as many followers of the site as they can.</p>
<h3 style="text-align: left;">Website Cyber Bullying</h3>
<p style="text-align: left;">In the most extreme cases of cyber bullying, many kids are  going to the trouble of building entire websites from scratch in order to use  them to humiliate another individual.  A  common method for doing this is to buy a URL from godaddy.com that humiliates  the target (such as <em>www.lisaisugly.com</em>)  then fill it with unkind postings and photos (Photoshopping a person into uncompromising  positions is a highly used form of cyber bullying) then spreading word about the  site to others via email, social networking, etc.</p>
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		<title>Stories of Cyber Bullying</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Currently, cyber bullying is one of the fastest growing problems facing school administrators and local governments around the country. Cyber bullying is defined as using the computer or other electronic devices to intimidate, threaten or humiliate another individual. Cyber bullying most commonly takes place on the Internet among students from a given school or neighborhood.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: left;">Currently, cyber bullying is one of the fastest growing problems facing school administrators and local governments around the country.<span> </span>Cyber bullying is defined as using the computer or other electronic devices to intimidate, threaten or humiliate another individual.<span> </span>Cyber bullying most commonly takes place on the Internet among students from a given school or neighborhood.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: left;">What follows is a series of highly publicized cases of Cyber bullying – each one chosen to shed light on the nature of the problem and the fallout that ensues when one young individual uses technology to hurt another person psychologically.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: left;"><strong>The Megan Meier MySpace Incident</strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: left;"><a href="http://www.cyberbullyalert.com/blog/2008/08/myspace-cyberbullying-incident-produces-tragic-results/" target="_self">Megan Meier</a> was a 13 year old from Missouri who struck up an online friendship on the popular social networking site <a title="Myspace Cyber Bullying" href="http://www.cyberbullyalert.com/blog/2008/08/top-5-technologies-used-to-cyberbully/" target="_self">MySpace</a> with a person she believed was a new boy in her hometown.<span> </span>In actuality, the “friend” was a group of individuals, including adults, who were intent on humiliating the poor girl because of a friendship with another child that had gone awry.<span> </span>Megan was very upset when she found out the truth, then later committed suicide once the friendship had terminated.<span> </span>The horrifying case stunned the community and caused state government officials to pass some of the harshest <a href="http://www.cyberbullyalert.com/blog/category/cyber-bullying-law/" target="_self">cyber bullying laws</a> in the country.</p>
<div class="cta" style="text-align: left;">Give your child the ability to report cyber bullying incidents instantly with <a href="http://cyberbullyalert.com/download.php" target="_self">CyberBully Alert Software</a>.</div>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: left;"><strong>The “Kill Kylie” Campaign of Hate and Homophobia</strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: left;"><a href="http://deseretnews.com/article/1,5143,645194065,00.html" target="_blank">Kylie Kenney</a>, an eighth grade student from Vermont lost two years of her life as a result of <a href="http://www.cyberbullyalert.com/resources.php" target="_self">cyber bullying</a> from classmates.<span> </span>From junior high through her sophomore year of high school, Kylie was forced to deal with websites created by her classmates that featured names like “Kill Kylie Incorporated” that were filled with threatening, homophobic remarks about the young girl.<span> </span>These hurtful kids obtained screen names with handles close to Kylie’s name and used them to make suggestive remarks and sexual advances on Kylie’s teammates on the field hockey team.<span> </span>As a result police filed charges of harassments against the individuals responsible.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: left;"><strong>The “<a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2005/07/06/AR2005070601953.html" target="_blank">Dog Poop Girl</a>”</strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: left;">In South Korea, a female college student was riding the train with her dog when it defecated on the floor of the subway car.<span> </span>After the girl refused to clean up the mess, another passenger on the train took her picture using her cell phone and posted it online.<span> </span>In the months to follow, it became an Internet sensation in South Korea and “Dog Poop” girl became the target of extreme harassment.<span> </span>Individuals found out her name and address and soon she was forced to withdraw from school and move to another part of the country.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: left;"><strong>A Fake Facebook Rival</strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: left;">This year in Clinton Missouri, charges were filed against a teenager who allegedly created a fake Facebook account to serve as a competition against a young girl who was interested romantically in a male student.<span> </span>The account was created by another girl who wanted the boy all to herself, the suit claims.<span> </span>As a result, the targeted individual underwent significant levels of stress which affected her studies and her ability to attend school regularly.<span> </span>The case is one of many that feature phony accounts on <a href="http://www.cyberbullyalert.com/blog/2008/08/top-5-technologies-used-to-cyberbully/" target="_self">Facebook</a> or MySpace that are used to harass young people or stir up trouble among friends.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: left;">Cyber Bullying has become a worldwide problem because of the difficulty to track its occurrences.  It some cases it has been accepted as humor, but when is it taken to far?  When a child has taken her own life because she was cyber bullied, we know it has been taken way too far.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: left;">Cyber bullying has been present in the 2008 presidential election with the slurrying of both presidential candidates John McCain and Barack Obama.  Even the vice-presidential candidates Sarah Palin and Joe Biden have been victims of this abuse.  These slanders wouldn&#8217;t technically be considered cyber bullying, but are loosely related.  Senator Sarah Palin has received the worst of it with the creation of videos mocking her interviews on <a href="http://www.nbc.com/Saturday_Night_Live/video/clips/palin-hillary-open/656281/" target="_blank">Saturday Night Live</a>.  NBC reports over 7 million views online, with millions more watching it on YouTube and Google video.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: left;">CyberBully Alert is an innovative new technology that helps families fight back against online predators and cyber bullies.<span> </span>Visit <a href="http://www.cyberbullyalert.com" target="_self">www.cyberbullyalert.com</a> today for more information.</p>
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		<title>Cyber Bullying State Laws and Policies</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Recently, a number of states have passed strong cyber bullying laws that are designed to protect children from being harassed, threatened and humiliated online. These laws represent a crucial step towards National anti-cyber bullying laws which will protect children of all ages in every corner of the country.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: left;">Recently, a number of states have passed strong <a href="http://www.cyberbullyalert.com" target="_self">cyber bullying</a> laws that are designed to protect children from being harassed, threatened and humiliated online. These laws represent a crucial step towards National anti-cyber bullying laws which will protect children of all ages in every corner of the country.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Here is a state-by-state look at some of these laws:</p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>Arkansas</strong><br />
In 2007, the Arkansas legislation passed a law allowing school officials to take action against cyber bullies even if the bullying did not originate or take place on school property. The law gave school administrators much more freedom to punish those individuals who sought to harass their fellow students.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>Idaho</strong><br />
2006 saw Idaho lawmakers pass a law that allowed school officials to suspend students if they bullied or harassed other students using a telephone or computer.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>Iowa</strong><br />
Iowa has passed several laws that force schools to create anti-cyber bullying policies which cover bullying &#8220;in schools, on school property or at any school function or school-sponsored activity.&#8221;</p>
<div class="cta">Help prevent <a href="http://www.cyberbullyalert.com/incentive.php" target="_self">cyber bullying in schools</a> by using your own <a href="http://cyberbullyalert.com/download.php" target="_self">Cyber Bully Prevention Software</a>.</div>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>New Jersey</strong><br />
The Garden State of New Jersey has always maintained tough laws about bullying, but it wasn’t until 2007 that the laws were amended to include bullying via “electronic communication.” These laws give additional power to the school system to enforce bullying-related punishment for actions that may not take place while on school grounds.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>Oregon</strong><br />
The progressive state of Oregon really delves into the details of cyber bullying. The laws passed in recent years in Oregon expand the boundaries of what constitutes cyber bullying to include those actions which “substantially interfere” with the education of the young person.<br />
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Missouri</strong><br />
The suicide of a 13-year old girl <a title="Megan Meier" href="http://www.cyberbullyalert.com/blog/2008/08/myspace-cyberbullying-incident-produces-tragic-results/" target="_self">Megan Meier</a> who was the victim of an internet hoax greatly raised the awareness of cyber bullying and its consequences in the state of Missouri. Governor Matt Blunt went so far as to create a task force whose sole purpose was to study and create laws regarding cyber bullying. As a result the Internet Harassment Task Force now stands as a shining example for other states around the country. Missouri has also toughened their laws on the matter, upgrading cyber-harassment from a misdemeanor to a Class D felony.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>New York</strong><br />
New York created a system to investigate claims of cyber bullying that would help police and school officials better ascertain the circumstances of each occurrence and prosecute or punish the culprits to the fullest extent of the law.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>Rhode Island</strong><br />
The governor of Rhode Island is currently trying to pass a bill that would force repeat cyber bullying offenders to appear in family court, where they would be charged as delinquents under the terms of the state’s laws for young offenders.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>Vermont</strong><br />
Vermont has added a $500 fine for cyber bullying offenses to their already stringent laws on the matter. There is currently a bill being discussed that would increase the reach of the school’s powers regarding cyber bullying when the action puts the individual’s ability to learn (or health and safety) at risk.</p>
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		<title>Positive Activities your Child can do Online</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[It is common knowledge that the web is filled with potential dangers for our children.  However, kids need to develop their computer skills in order to stay competitive in school, and one day, the job market.  With that in mind, we present the following positive, educational or just plain fun activities that kids [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: left;"><img class="alignleft" style="padding:10px" title="Child Father" src="http://harfordmedlegal.typepad.com/photos/uncategorized/parent_and_child_on_computer.jpg" alt="" width="110" height="100" />It is common knowledge that the web is filled with potential dangers for our children.  However, kids need to develop their computer skills in order to stay competitive in school, and one day, the job market.  With that in mind, we present the following positive, educational or just plain fun activities that kids can engage in online.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>Positive Online Activities for Kids</strong></p>
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<li> Learn about their world.  The web is home to some of the most comprehensive almanacs and encyclopedias in the world.  The following websites are great resources for legitimate information online:  <a href="http://www.encyclopedia.com" target="_blank">www.encyclopedia.com</a>,  <a href="http://www.wikipedia.org/" target="_blank">www.wikipedia.org</a>, and <a href="http://www.britannica.com/" target="_blank">www.britannica.com</a>.  With just the click of a mouse, a child can not only learn about different cultures and bygone eras, they can see that information come to life with full color photos, videos and other multimedia.</li>
<li>Keep in touch with family.  Young kids and grandparents.  A match made in heaven.  But what if grandma and grandpa are thousands of miles away and are only able to make limited trips to see the family?  Kids can use email to communicate with ALL their relatives around the world – and can even create a family website featuring photos and other cool information.</li>
<li>Play educational games.  Not all web-based games are mindless first-person shooters.  Some actually have educational value.  Do some Google searches to find the ones best suited for your kids - be they historical <a href="http://www.funtrivia.com" target="_blank">trivia quizzes</a> or logic puzzles.</li>
<li>Do research on their homework materials.  Online, kids can gather all kinds of reference materials for papers, science projects, oral essays and other school assignments.  (Note to parents:  Be sure and check the credibility of the source materials your children use.  Also, be sure to explain to them how “cutting and pasting” information on the web is plagiarism).</li>
<li>Start a blog.  Setting up a <a href="http://wordpress.com" target="_blank">wordpress blog</a> through Word Press is fun and easy.  Why not sit down with your child and help them develop a blog about their favorite hobbies or interests?  The child will be learning one of the most valuable web development skills out there today and engaging in a productive activity to boot.</li>
<li>Get involved with a cause.  There are literally thousands of websites devoted to informing people about important causes and charities around the globe.  Many of these sites feature “KIDS SECTIONS” where young people can learn more about the topic and get involved.  These kinds of activities illustrate one of the great, unheralded benefits of the Internet:  that it makes our world smaller and connects us with one another in powerful ways.</li>
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<p style="text-align: left;">The best thing to remember about kids and the Internet is to keep everything closely monitored and always in moderation.  Set aside specific hours when you child can use the computer and always monitor that time as closely as you can.  Ask other parents about the activities they engage in with their kids and get ideas from that community.</p>
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		<title>Tips for Protecting your Kids from Bullies in Schools and Online</title>
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Few things upset a parent more than hearing that their child  has been the victim bullying.  And  while schoolyard bullying is a historic problem (and continues to be so) modern  technology has increased the bullying problem by creating a new breed of  the problem - the cyber bully.
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<p style="text-align: left;">Few things upset a parent more than hearing that their child  has been the victim bullying.  And  while schoolyard bullying is a historic problem (and continues to be so) modern  technology has increased the bullying problem by creating a new breed of  the problem - the cyber bully.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><a href="http://www.cyberbullyalert.com" target="_self">Cyber bullying</a> and physical bullying may differ in many ways,  but the pain that they both cause is remarkably similar.  The children who are able to overcome  bullying are not necessarily the strongest kids on the block, but rather the  ones with the parents who are best educated on the subject.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">The following are vital, expert tips on how to help your  child avoid getting bullied – and enrich their self-esteem in the process. These tips are not meant to solve the bullying problem, but instead give your child some education on how to handle these difficult situations.</p>
<h3 style="text-align: left;"><strong>Tips for protecting  your kids from schoolyard bullies</strong></h3>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>Tip #1: Teach your  child to use their words instead of their fists</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Back in the old days, parents (especially fathers) used to  tell their kids to fight back when threatened by a bully.  We now know that strategy is not the most productive  course of action.  By using their words  in the face of the predator, the child is refusing to reinforce the bullying  behavior and therefore opening up a crack in the bully’s armor.  This action will gain support from their peers,  which will in turn weaken the bully’s resolve.   For example, teach your child to say “I’m not afraid of you” when  confronted by a bully.  This will build  their self-confidence as it erodes the confidence of the bully.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><img style="float:left; padding:10px" src="http://www.ca.uky.edu/Agcollege/4h/parents/images/father_son_fishing.jpg" alt="" width="146" height="198" /></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>Tip #2:  Role play with your kids</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: left;">One of the most effective ways to teach your kids how to  handle a bully is to role play a variety of different situations with them at  home.  Show them how to respond when  someone is picking on them.  Give them  “lines” to read that will protect them and build their self-esteem at the same  time.  For example, when a bully says  “I’m going to punch you if you don’t give me your lunch money” have your child  rehearse responses such as “that’s not going to do you any good, it will just  get you in big trouble eventually.&#8221; Educate them on whom to contact if they are bullied, for instance the school principal, teacher, or any other school staff. This will empower them  and boost their self esteem when dealing with these issues.</p>
<h3 style="text-align: left;"><strong>Tips for protecting  your kids from cyber bullying</strong></h3>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>Tip #1: Explain to  them about the dangers of the Internet</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Kids can be very trusting, especially when they are  online. Sit down and explain to them the potential dangers of the  Internet. Explain how, some people are not who they claim to be online,  and just like in the real world, they should never agree to meet with a  stranger or offer any information about themselves when online. Educating your  child is crucial in preventing your child from cyber bullies, online predators,  or any other person looking to harm your child.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><img style="float:right; padding:10px" src="http://nourishinteractive.com/images/photos/father_daughter_laptop.jpg" alt="" width="137" height="188" /></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>Tip #2:  Monitor their Internet time</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Many parents have created “Internet Family Time” as a way to  monitor their child’s Internet use while still giving them the freedom to use  the computer for school work and communicating with their friends. Place the computer in a central location, for example the living room; this will allow you to regulate any websites they are browsing. Make this time fun, educative, and get the whole family involved. There is no reason that the parents can&#8217;t get involved in a good game of Chess or a crossword puzzle online. Refer to your helpful tips on <a href="http://cyberbullyalert.com/blog/2008/09/how-to-monitor-your-childs-internet-use/">how to monitor your child’s internet use</a> for more information.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>Tip #3: Block access  to suspect web sites</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: left;">One of the best ways to avoid <a href="http://www.cyberbullyalert.com" target="_self">cyber bullying</a> is to help your  child avoid the situation in the first place. By using some of the  best-selling software programs available on the market, parents can block  access to the most potentially dangerous sites on the web. You can easily  &#8220;blacklist&#8221; all websites and instant messenger (IM) clients so that  your child has no access.  We recommend blocking popular social networking sites like Myspace.com and Friendster.com because they are most popular locations for cyber bullies.  You should disallow access to any online chat rooms, forums, and other online social communities.  In addition, you can give your child limited user  rights when using the computer, this means disabling unnecessary applications,  for example Yahoo Messenger, AIM, or Gtalk. This limited access also prevents  installation of any new applications without your consent.</p>
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		<title>How to Monitor your Child’s Internet Use</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[In the decade since it became an integral part of our lives,  the Internet has transformed the way we communicate, do business, shop and  obtain information.  But perhaps no group  has been as profoundly impacted by the web as our children.   Children as young as five years old are able  to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: left;"><img style="float:left; padding-right:10px; padding-bottom:10px" src="http://www.scusd.edu/information_services/j0399402.jpg" alt="" width="237" height="237" />In the decade since it became an integral part of our lives,  the Internet has transformed the way we communicate, do business, shop and  obtain information.  But perhaps no group  has been as profoundly impacted by the web as our children.   Children as young as five years old are able  to navigate the online world with ease – and the older they get the more they  use it to communicate with their friends and get help with their school work.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">But our children are also at great risk when they are  online.  Danger lurks around every corner  in the form of <a title="Cyber-Bullied" href="http://www.cyberbullyalert.com" target="_self">cyber-bullies</a>, predators and massive amounts of inappropriate  information – both hidden (in chat rooms) and overt (in pornography and other  adult sites).</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">As parents, we walk a fine line – we must allow our kids to  use the computer in order to stay current and build skills for their future,  but we must also play the role of watch-dog in order to make sure that they do  not fall prey to those who would exploit them online.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">To help guide the way, here are some simple tips for  monitoring your child’s Internet time.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>Explain  the rules right up front</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: left;">No matter how you choose to monitor  your child’s Internet use, it is important to let them know right from the  start that you will be an active part of the computer time.  But don’t stop there – explain that you are  doing it for their own safety, telling them about the potential dangers that  can be found on the Internet.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>Make computer time  family time</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: left;">The best way to help your children stay safe while they are  online is to supervise their activity.   And the most effective, productive way to do that is to hold daily  “Internet Family Time” in which every child is given a chance to work or play  online, but with adults present.  Be sure  to make this time fun, and something the kids look forward to every day.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>Monitor bookmarks and  history records</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Another effective method for monitoring a child’s Internet  use is simply reviewing their bookmarks or site history at the end of their  online sessions.  This will provide a  clearer picture of the kinds of sites your children are visiting, and will give  you a chance to talk to them about inappropriate websites and potential online  dangers that can be found in the sites they are browsing.   Many kids may be unaware of the types of  people who inhabit these sites, and will benefit greatly from a little extra  information.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>Block unwanted sites</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Recent software innovations have made it possible for  parents to install site blockers into their browsers which prevent children  from viewing certain sites.   While these  programs are effective, they are not perfect (and may be no match for a  motivated, tech-savvy kid) and should always be accompanied by parental  education or involvement (such as those listed above).</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Has your child been the  victim of a cyberbully?  Are you  concerned about threat of cyberbullying in your child’s peer group?  CyberBully Alert helps families fight back  against online predators and cyberbullies.     Visit <a href="http://www.cyberbullyalert.com">www.cyberbullyalert.com</a> today for more information.</p>
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